A new equation: focus plus urgency equals book!

by | Jan 15, 2014 | Uncategorized | 8 comments

Last time you had your eyes here, I was talking about urgency and how that’s really the only way to get your book done.

And I really think that it is. You can schedule it in, you can hire all kinds of writing coaches, take programs, and analyse the crap out of your own head, but in the end, there’s just you, the page, and whatever sense you have of life being a fleeting, fragile, beautiful thing that needs you to DOTHISNOW.

I still think that.

But.

If you have urgency (great!! Don’t let it go. You NEED that) but don’t have a direction, you’ll just be spinning your wheels, feeling like you’ve got a lot to give, but no idea where to put your energy.

My own husband had this problem just last week. Actually, he’s had it for the last 18 months, but that’s a discouragingly long time, so we won’t mention it. 😉

He’d been feeling like he was stuck. Blocked. He had so much material floating about without a structure that it was overwhelming, and he felt like he could never get it back under control.

Worst of all, he felt like a project he’d promised himself he’d get done was just Not Going To Happen – and when that feeling comes to stay, it’s easy to believe that you’re sunk.

Basically, Himself has been brewing a book for the last year and a half. In his mind, on paper, in various writing programs on his laptop. And I’ve been offering to help him sort it out for months. What good is having a partner who’s a (insert whatever useful occupation you like here) if you don’t take advantage of the free service??

So there I was, offering and offering, and adding his name to my courses, generally asking encouraging questions, and letting him muddle through.

And finally, yesterday, I offered again: “So how about that half-hour consult on your book that I’ve been going on about? We’ve got time before bed.”

Miracle of miracles, he said yes!

We sat down, first charging our glasses, and making sure we had enough of the chocco stuff to last me the half hour.

 We talked book. His book.

As we talked, the problem became clearer.

It turns out that he has about five books in him, that were all trying to come out at once, as one book. He had so many different ideas vying for his attention and noisily demanding to be written that in trying to do them all, he did none.

What we did to solve this was talk about his original idea – the one that started the whole thing off. We decided how his reader needed to be led through his book so that it made the most sense, and also had the most impact. (It’s a non-fiction book, so it was practical to do it this way. If you’re writing fiction, there’s a little more flexibility in the process)

Then we looked at his original thoughts about the topic, and ordered them, and put them in a structured plan.

His homework is to transfer all of the material that he’s already written into the structure that we’ve nutted out. Then he’ll get back to me, and we’ll list all the parts that still need to be written.

Next we talked about what to do with all of the material that wouldn’t fit into this book.

That’s when I got the biggest surprise.

He took off running, arms flung wide into a future as an author, with books pouring out of his brain like it was some kind of ideas factory and … they all accumulated, just sort of frolicking about being distracting. Certainly they’re good ideas, and definitely needed in his industry. (Eco-cities, anyone? My word, yes!) But he’s an engineer, and this sort of ideas-fountain was totally unexpected.

(Yes, I stereotyped him. I very meekly apologise and beg forgiveness!)

I suddenly understood why he’d had such trouble getting his book finished.

He needed to catch all those ideas, write them down, and then pick the one to work on first. The rest can wait, nicely noted down and corralled in places where he can jot a note or two so that no random thoughts get lost.

Narrowing the focus gives him scope to really explore his topic, but stick to the structure we’ve outlined, and write that one first book fully, without being scattered in his thoughts. He has a point to make, and one he needs to make strongly. If all those other books got mixed in, then his point would be lost, diluted by the noise and showiness of the other ideas.

After our sorting-out session, Himself has renewed vigour and commitment to his book.

He now has a direction for that urgency about life that all of our community is still feeling after the death of our friend in mid-December, (written about here) and that means that he stands a much better chance of getting his book written this year.

And I have a new equation: urgency + focus = progress.

The steps we took again, just to you have them in the clearest possible way are:

  1. Narrow the focus. Note your original idea, or the one that’s speaking to you loudest, begging to be written. Assure the others that you’ll get to them in their turn, in their time.
  2. Order your thoughts: how would you lead your reader through your book?
  3. Keep other book ideas away. Note them down elsewhere, but not anywhere near your current book project. I hear lots of good things about Evernote from authors.
  4. Write the parts that need to be written. If that’s your whole book, then fine. If you have a lot of material, then fill the gaps.

It seems simplistic, and yes, there’s a whole lot more in there that can – and does – trip a Writer up. But the basics are there. If you do them, you’ll have your book.

If your book needs to be written this year, and you think that a free half hour strategy session with me might help get you some focus and nudge you over the starting line, click here to book one in.

Remember, life is short, in the end. If you’ve got something you dream of doing, now is all you have. Go to it!

And let me know in the comments what you rely on to tame the flow of ideas and narrow down your focus so that you can get something written.

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8 Comments

8 Comments

  1. Alenka

    Great post and great guidance. It can apply to everything. For me the most important part is to write them down, so I can relax and not worry that I’ll forget them and then just pick the one that feels the best and work it.

  2. Tanja @ Conscious Introvert Success

    Love this post, Tamara, and I get a sense that your four step process would potentially be valuable for ANY writing project that someone’s blocked on – not just writing a book. In fact, it might be valuable for any type of creative block – even non-writing ones!

    Blessings

    TANJA

  3. Naomi Goodlet

    I’m glad that you’ve found something that works for you. I find that I freeze when I feel urgency. I need calm to tap into my best creativity. All the best with it! x

  4. Jo Gifford | Blogger & Blog coach

    What a great post. I just managed to get two books out on Amazon by focussing and trying to keep on track. Also, I love Evernote for storing “backburner” ideas (and for ordering most of my life, actually!).
    I wish your husband well x

  5. Tat

    I can relate on all accounts: both being stuck when there is no direction and having a husband who won’t take advantage of professional skills. “Keep other ideas away” is a great piece of advice and can be applied to all other things, not just books… nothing more distracting that changing your mind all the time about what it is exactly that you’re doing.

  6. Nano

    That’s it! You are right! We all have more projects in us than we can work on at once. I can relate! Love those steps! I am going to use them!

  7. tamara

    Alenka – so true! I think if ideas think we might forget them, they dry up… Writing them down faithfully seems to help.

    Tanja – I guess it would help any creative endeavour. I must try that with my knitting: perhaps I’ll actually finish something! (And Happy Birthday!!)

    Naomi – Good point. For me, if urgency gets too intense, I can freeze too. I think the key is in letting it push you forwards instead of around in circles…. my last post, about the death of a friend and the urgency with which our community created something for him before he died, was reflective of how focus coupled with that urgency can have an amazing effect. Wishing you calm creation!

    Jo – Go you!! Amazing what focus can do, huh? What are your books?

    Tat – Yup. I hear you! I was almost knocked off my feet when he actually decided to take my offer of help. And yes, as a person who has a monkey mind that’s off on every tangent under the sun, ohsofast, focus is my only hope.

    Nano – Hope the steps help! Good luck.

  8. Raquel

    Fabulous advice. Your poor husband with all his ideas– reminds me very much of mine! Luckily, he has you to help him through his road blocks. Keeping the other books away is a BIG one. It’s hard, when one is in the middle of a tough part in a manuscript, to not run to write the new, shiny idea. It takes commitment and resolve… and urgency. 🙂

    Raquel

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